INTRODUCTION
Bob Russell is a fluent speaker and preacher in line of religious affairs. He has been into tour around Europe untiringly and with zeal preaching the word of God even to the extent that he consequently met an accident in one of his endeavor. This laid him abed for quit sometime n the hospital. Russell has fertile religious and spiritual ideologies as fortified by his down-to-earth experiences. Some of the contents of the book were mainly exhorted fro among his preaching. These circle mostly on prayers and God.
“God answers every prayer,
for either he gives what we pray for,
or of something for the better.”
- Soren Kierkegaard
A. Our Manners on Prayer
We always seem to consider prayer as an amount or a medium of exchange to buy a commodity from God. We usually fall into our knees when we are constricted by needs and other infirmities, and forgets everything when we are casually on tract again to life. Prayer is always compartmentalized – that is, by certain grace of time and place. And other human activities are devoid of prayer itself. If we pray in times when we are dragged by needs, anxieties, anger and frustrations we see God as an over-the-counter pain reliever. That is, we remember him at this juncture and some other times his out of the blue again. Man’s faculty is brittle and fluctuating, always tantamount to ingratitude and forgetfulness. Prayer is always in danger of a vain negotiation between man and a personal and loving God.
We usually pray as if we are holding a scepter putting God under the veil of our superficiality, to the extent of imposing an imperative over him. As if God slept last night. As if God is so dull of the queer twists of our world. Say Bob Russell, “prayer is not meant to be dictation. We, in our immaturity sometimes don’t know what to ask for. Jesus himself was not a dictator in his prayers. In the garden of Gethsemane he prayed, “not my will, but yours be done.”
B. Prayers Need Not Be Perfect
Every one has doubts, God doesn’t expect perfect faith, but he does expect sincere faith (Bob Russell). It is a fact that we are doubter by nature and it follows that we cannot dispense the anxiety that our prayers will not come true. However, we are not being told to have perfect faith, rather earnest faith. We only have to acknowledge to God our weaknesses, our dependence on him so that God may fill it. While boasting ourselves to be self-sufficient, surely God will not fit into it.
C. Unanswered Prayers
One of the most frustrating things grounded to prayers, oftentimes, in lieu to us, is that we deemed it as unheard and always unanswered. Bob Russell stressed out, “God doesn’t guarantee that he’ll answer all of our prayers exactly the way we ask, or prayers would put us in charge of the universe. That would be dangerous.” he added that, “sometimes God uses natural means to answer our prayers. God moves mountains more through gradual erosion than through Volcanic eruption.” God, according to Bob will take into account our immaturity and limitations, no matter how much we think we know what’s best for us, God sees the “bigger picture” and is interested in what is best for us. Further, God will not answer prayers in verbatim fashion. Say one of you is asking for a dry season and the other is asking for wet one and you are at the same locality. Which of you will be heard? God cannot make dry and wet season at the same time and in the same place. Wet and dry are two polar or opposite elements of nature, just like light and darkness. Else, God would be scrambling nature and contradicting himself. We know that God respects nature the way he has given us perfect individual choices. What God has done, God will not undo, although he can destroy it. He made you a man, he cannot undo you into an ape or a banana. Everything is perfect when God made this world. So, there is no need to undo it or God must have done a mistake when he made this world. Nonetheless, your prayers will be heard in the way that God sees it to be best for you and to your fellow. God doesn’t have time to self-centered and selfish prayers.
D. Finally, Prayer is…
True and clear enough when God said that he’ll be with us ’till the end of time is a personal conviction and he is not “watching us from a distance” as cited in a song. Our God is not a scrape of genie-in-the-bottle who care only for petty yearnings. Instead, he is a God who is intimate. A God who cares for both sides of the coin in our lives. At his end (Bob Russell) he said, that prayer is saying, “Father, will you do thine with me? I can’t do it alone! It’s too big for me. Then, when you step out in faith, you discover that with our heavenly father beside you, the sky’s the limit.”
Way back when I was just a wandering kid, learning to tie my shoe and welcoming the breeze of life unto my little nostrils, I wonder what was Rubik’s Cube for? It was so grotesque for me, I mean for me it’s more than just a toy (because of it’s symbolism. I guess you really have to read further) I was so awed by it’s multi-rotary sides and perfectly engineered mechanism. A cube within a cube. A handfuls of cube each moving in a perfect mechanical route. Consequently, a single color dangles miles and miles of moves while you don’t know the techniques yet. Thus, if you wanna see your cube still arranged correctly, then careful in twisting it the first time you bought it, else that’s the first and the last time you’ll gonna see it that way (except if you excuse me putting them back, lol!).
Each family finds within itself summons that cannot be ignored, and that specifies both dignity and its responsibility: family, becomes what you are looking at it in such a way as to reach its very roots, we must say that the essence and role of the family are in the final analysis specified by love. Hence the family has the mission to guard, reveal and communicate love. Thus, love as its point of departure and making constant reference to it, the recent Synod emphasized four general tasks of the family: 1) forming a community of persons, 2) serving life, 3) participating in the development of the society, 4) sharing in the life and mission of the church (PJPII, Familiaris Consortio).
It would be a vain enterprise if we would try to contend Filipino philosophy with that of the megalithic brain works of the western philosophers who are obviously diverse and idealistic from our own. Filipinos are engrossed with the scruples of the heart than that of the brain. You can easily pick a Filipino out of the many by working on the cistern of his emotions – his heart level. And in the same line of argument, a Filipino can be facilely scoped-up among the radically contrastive showcases of value systems around the world by his profound reverence towards elders.
Kierkegaard is an intensely personal philosopher, because, for him, philosophy is nothing more than a persoanal reflection of one’s lived experience. Further, life is so complex and precious to be boxed-in a system.

